tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8612485413912045793.post1731915520289173405..comments2023-05-19T07:00:26.628-05:00Comments on Just Breathe: Expressions of love and uncertainty lost in the mix of everyday life and simplicity. Hate to throw in my confusion and mess everyone up.Han and Momohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920501800199712451noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8612485413912045793.post-8360637803519386452011-07-31T08:45:37.278-05:002011-07-31T08:45:37.278-05:00Wow, first off i just wanted to say that im sorry ...Wow, first off i just wanted to say that im sorry if i offended you!! I did not mean to say that crying WAS manipulation. Rather, that i have mostly seen it used as that. And so it is tainted for me now. I cannot cry without thinking "guilt trip".<br />I see what you mean though, tears can definitely come easier than words. I think i have just taught mine to stay concealed. <br />Sometimes, if it comes down to the point where the only thing i can do is cry, then i cry. Or sometimes i just walk away.<br />It almost scares me that i cant let anyone in in this way.<br />But um, yeah. To be honest i guess i let people in too.<br />The thing is, i open myself up for the WRONG people, and i close myself off to the people that could actually help me.<br />Haha i think i am beginning to learn some things too :) <br />Hehe thank you :) And i don't mind, haha from one rambler to another, i know how long thoughts can sometimes get! ;)Han and Momohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09920501800199712451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8612485413912045793.post-84349653583094393872011-07-31T01:07:09.004-05:002011-07-31T01:07:09.004-05:00wow. The crying thing really got me. I am a crier....wow. The crying thing really got me. I am a crier. Like any traumatic, stressful, hurtful, or just sad conversation and I am instantly in tears. I have NO idea how to reign them in. and I have worried so much that I am not seen as manipulative in that way!! Because you're so right, it really can seem that way! I try so hard to use my words, but tears just come so much easier and naturally. wow. I probably don't even realize half the time that I should SAY it first, then release the tears. haha. as if there's a button ;) but I can so relate to this! except I usually open up my feelings far to easily to people and get burned a lot for it. You'd think I'd learn by now...and I actually think I finally am learning!! so that is the good news, there's hope!! haha. anyways, I like this post. and forgive me for writing such a book comment!!Kaitlyn Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00827628836301299750noreply@blogger.com